I am an adult disabled child and have been on disability for 4 years now. I was engaged but found out I would lose all my benefits if I married. My fiance and I chose to have a commitment ceremony instead of losing my income and insurance. He could not afford to support us on his income alone. Now we are discussing trying to have children. Am I allowed to have a child and still qualify for my social security benefits? I am aware with my condition it would be a high risk pregnancy but we still would like to try. It seems unfair that they would be able to prevent me from marrying and having children because of my disability.